Mbang Fimbar - Online Memorial Website

My deepest condolences.  May these few words from the Holy Scriptures bring you comfort in your time of grief...

John 11:32-45

32 And so Mary, when she arrived where Jesus was and caught sight of him, fell at his feet, saying to him: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping and the Jews that came with her weeping, groaned in the spirit and became troubled; 34 and he said: “Where have YOU laid him?” They said to him: “Lord, come and see.” 35 Jesus gave way to tears. 36 Therefore the Jews began to say: “See, what affection he used to have for him!” 37 But some of them said: “Was not this [man] that opened the eyes of the blind man able to prevent this one from dying?”

38 Hence Jesus, after groaning again within himself, came to the memorial tomb. It was, in fact, a cave, and a stone was lying against it.39 Jesus said: “TAKE the stone away.” Martha, the sister of the deceased, said to him: “Lord, by now he must smell, for it is four days.”40 Jesus said to her: “Did I not tell you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?” 41 Therefore they took the stone away. Now Jesus raised his eyes heavenward and said: “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 True, I knew that you always hear me; but on account of the crowd standing around I spoke, in order that they might believe that you sent me forth.” 43 And when he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice: “Laz´a·rus, come on out!” 44The [man] that had been dead came out with his feet and hands bound with wrappings, and his countenance was bound about with a cloth. Jesus said to them: “Loose him and let him go.”

45 Therefore many of the Jews that had come to Mary and that beheld what he did put faith in him;

Please go to the following link for more information regarding the Hope expressed in this passage

http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/dead-live-again-tract/dead-live-again

My condolences, as feelings of pain and bitterness become unbearable. It is my desire to convey a comforting thought based on the Holy Scriptures

I can't believe am writing a tribute to a dead brother. My heart is very heavy this moment as I write not because you are gone but because of the sudden nature of your departure.You were so hardworking and full of life, friendly, loving, soft spoken.My joy is that you died in christ but again my worry is why too soon.We will miss that look above your glasses, that beautiful smile, those dimples and gap tooth.Farewell my beloved brother till we meet to part no more. Judith Komtangi.

SPEECHLESS. SPEECHLESS. SPEECHLESS indeed you left me. What happened bo Mbang? why didnt you tell me it was our last talk on Wednesday? why did you give me assurance that all was alright? what transpired between thursday and sunday that you couldnt hint me? why did you hide this big blow from me? Why naa uncle Fim? why, why, why? my eyes bleed. what do i tell the kids? who do i turn to for advice and consolation? You meant alot to me. Oh death, why are you so cruel to us? Oh death, Where did we wrong you? bo Mbang, open your mouth and talk to me. The pain is too much to bear. i can't believe my 'story' partner has shut his mouth and we haven't talked for some weeks now. God alone knows why and He alone has answers to my questions. it hurts though but consoling because i know you are resting in the bosom of the Lord where there is no pain and suffering. I will continue to cherish the times we spent together.
CONTINUE TO REST IN PERFECT PEACE FIMBAR.
KWAI NJONG ELIZABETH ( sister in law)

I am Speechless Uncle Fim, You were  like a Daddy i never had since from childhood, calm, smart and very intelligent, always there to encaurage me, always there to guide me through my life journey to be a sucessful woman, always looking after me to see if i am progressing in my career..You have been a great instructor to me and my family..I will always appreciate you Uncle Fim.Your lagacy lives on coz you are a great Man..I am speechless at this but God knows Best..We love you but God loves u more..Go home peacefully as you have always been and prepare a place for us all..
Continue to Rest in the Bossom of our Lord Uncle Fim... 

SO MUCH PAIN AFTER LEARNING OF THE PASSING AWAY OF OUR DEAR BROTHER. OUR MINDS ARE FULL OF THE HAPPY MEMORIES OF A CARING BROTHER AND WE CAN'T STILL GET OVER IT THAT HE LEFT WITHOUT SAYING GOODBYE. HE DID SO MUCH FOR THE FAMILY AND THOUGH GONE SO SOON, HE'LL FOREVER REMAIN IN OUR HEARTS. FAREWELL BROS!
THEA & BRUCE.

Though you have chosen to disgrace me in the physical, spiritually I feel and see you every second of my life. Our chats, audios we had hours before u journeyed beyond, I still keep them jealously. What a true man , father, brother , friend you were to me. A generous and hardworking figure. I continue to pray to God every single day to give me the heart of gold you had. Big bro, rest assured I will not fail you in whatever we had discussed or planned together. Till we meet again, adieu . 

Madam Beryl, may the good Lord comfort you and the kids and grant him a comfortable resting place in His Kingdom. May his soul RIPP

You were a breath of fresh air, a gentle, kind and loving man . you Will forever remain in our hearts . Adieu Uncle Fimbar

There's this feeling in my skin that makes me hate daybreak because days have passed.weeks, months and years are on their way.Thoughts of you linger in my head wondering how the family would move on without you....rest on Uncle

My dear Sister Mammi as we fond call you, please accept ou sincere condolence, this news of your husband‘s passing has left us speechless. But who are we to question the ma above us. Rest well our dearest Moyo until we meet to part no more. Stay strong for the kids NainGid will make a way and will always be your guide 

What is truly beautiful never truly die.Your legacy lives on.Farewell Uncle.

I remember your jovial and loving aura around you. I remember you always giving a listening ear and advising me on what to do and what not to do. I remember your love for your beautiful wife and amazing kids. I choose not to shed a tear but celebrate you. I choose to honor your legacy by always telling the Lord our God to always be with you. I choose to always be with your family each time they need me because that is what you will want; for them to miss you but always stay strong and fight as you will always do. Uncle Fimbar I will always miss you!! From Mai, Tony-Jared and Me. Love you always

Uncle,cannot still believe u left us confuse.my family and i spend the entire sunday the 8th in your place,had alot to eat and drink.little did i know it was the last time for us to talk.you complain of your ear hurting soo bad,but your gisting partners where all present especially "Na ba' Nkwain juliana. 
     I believe our lord loves you soo much that is why he called you he called you back home.i believe from heaven you will watch over the family you left back home.
        REST IN PEACE,WE LOVE YOU.
FLYNN,MAI AND Tony jared your grand son.

15 April will always be a black day for us!! You took us unawares and everybody is still in a state of trauma and confusion.How could you leave this world so soon Bo Mbang?You will forever be in our hearts.